Wednesday, July 23, 2014

“And now, if you believe all these things see that ye do them…”

For this part of the practicum, I chose the topic of prayer.  It is a topic that I dearly love and firmly believe in, however it is allow an area that I often fall short in.  I think that I have done well praying always, by keeping a prayer in my heart.  I will often find myself talking with Heavenly Father about my day as I am walking or driving in my car, however I am not very consistent with my morning and evening prayers.  In addition to the lack of consistency, these prayers tend to be shallower.
I have often heard it said that if there is a gospel principle that you are having difficulties following, it is because there is something that you do not understand or at least understand with your heart.  So I decided to first go on a hunt for understanding. I read several talks and I emailed my best friend who is on her mission.  She has always been fantastic with her prayers and I wanted to see what her understanding and practice of prayers is.

Through gathering all of this information and then trying to implement the different tools into my prayers I have definitely seen a difference.  My prayers are not as shallow and I am excited to get on my knees each morning and night.  The ability that we have to directly communicate with God is a wonderful gift and I am so glad that I have become better and implementing into my life.

Communication


(1) Dallin H. Oaks – October 2010 – “Two Lines of Communication”

“The direct, personal channel of communication to our Heavenly Father through the Holy Ghost is based on worthiness and is so essential that we are commanded to renew our covenants by partaking of the sacrament each Sabbath day. In this way we qualify for the promise that we may always have His Spirit to be with us, to guide us.”

(2) M. Russell Ballard – April 1999 – “Like a Flame Unquenchable”

“Nothing is more important to the relationship between family members than open, honest communication. This is particularly true for parents trying to teach gospel principles and standards to their children. The ability to counsel with our youth—and perhaps more importantly, to really listen to their concerns—is the foundation upon which successful relationships are built. Often what we see in the eyes and what we feel in the heart will communicate far more than what we hear or say. A word to you children: Never be disrespectful to your parents. You must also learn to listen, especially to the counsel of your mom and dad and to the promptings of the Spirit. We need to watch for and capture the special teaching moments that constantly occur within our family relationships, and we need to resolve now to hold family home evening every Monday night.”

(3) M. Russell Ballard – April 1999 – “Like a Flame Unquenchable”

“When long-established patterns of positive communication and faithful example prevail, it is much easier to counsel together about personal problems and to work through the necessary changes that will bless every family member.”

(4) Russell M. Nelson – April 2006 – “Nurturing Marriage”

“Good communication includes taking time to plan together. Couples need private time to observe, to talk, and really listen to each other. They need to cooperate—helping each other as equal partners. They need to nurture their spiritual as well as physical intimacy. They should strive to elevate and motivate each other. Marital unity is sustained when goals are mutually understood. Good communication is also enhanced by prayer. To pray with specific mention of a spouse’s good deed (or need) nurtures a marriage.”

(5) Thomas S. Monson – October 2011 – “Stand in Holy Places”

“My beloved brothers and sisters, communication with our Father in Heaven—including our prayers to Him and His inspiration to us—is necessary in order for us to weather the storms and trials of life.”

(6) Richard G. Scott – October 2010 – “The Transforming Power of Faith and Character”

“You cannot be passive in life, or in time the natural man will undermine your efforts to live worthily. You become what you do and what you think about. Lack of character leads one under pressure to satisfy appetite or seek personal gain. You cannot successfully bolster a weak character with the cloak of pretense.”

(7) Russell M. Ballard – October 2013 – “Put Your Trust in the Lord”

“You don’t have to be an outgoing person or an eloquent, persuasive teacher. If you have an abiding love and hope within you, the Lord has promised if you “lift up your voices unto this people [and] speak the thoughts that [He] shall put into your hearts, … you shall not be confounded before men.”

(8) W. Craig Zwick – April 2014 – “What Are you Thinking?”

“Paul warned, “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but [only] that which is good [and] edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers” (Ephesians 4:29). His words resonate with a certain purity. What does the phrase “no corrupt communication” mean to you? We all regularly experience highly charged feelings of anger—our own and others’. We have seen unchecked anger erupt in public places. We have experienced it as a sort of emotional “electrical short” at sporting events, in the political arena, and even in our own homes.”
 (9) L. Lionel Kendrick – October 1988 – “Christlike Communications”

“Our communications reflect in our countenance. Therefore, we must be careful not only what we communicate, but also how we do so. Souls can be strengthened or shattered by the message and the manner in which we communicate.”

(10) L. Lionel Kendrick – October 1988 – “Christlike Communications”

“Christlike communications are expressions of affection and not anger, truth and not fabrication, compassion and not contention, respect and not ridicule, counsel and not criticism, correction and not condemnation. They are spoken with clarity and not with confusion. They may be tender or they may be tough, but they must always be tempered.”

Position Statement


Every decision we make will affect others.  Whether it is directly or indirectly, there will be some sort of effect that each of us will leave on others.  This is why it is vital that we maintain good communication with those that we have the potential to greatly affect.  It is so important that we do all we can to create and maintain good relationships, especially with those that we are planning on sharing eternity with.  This may seem obvious, but sometimes it is the people that we are the closest to that we have the hardest time communicating with.  It is truly amazing to see what Christlike instead of selfish communication can do to a relationship.

The Fall


(1) Boyd K. Packer – April 1988 – “Atonement, Agency, Accountability”

“This we know! This simple truth! Had there been no Creation, no Fall, there should have been no need for any Atonement, neither a Redeemer to mediate for us. Then Christ need not have been.”

(2) Henry B. Eyring – April 2014 – “Daughters in the Covenant”

“I know that Eve faced sorrows and disappointments, but I also know that she found joy in the knowledge that she and her family could return to live with God. I know that many of you who are here face sorrows and disappointments. I leave you my blessing that, like Eve, you may feel the same joy that she felt as you journey back home.”

(3) Russell M. Nelson – October 1993 – “Consistency Amid Change”

“Other blessings came to us through the Fall. It activated two closely coupled additional gifts from God, nearly as precious as life itself—agency and accountability. We became “free to choose liberty and eternal life … or to choose captivity and death” (2 Ne. 2:27). Freedom of choice cannot be exercised without accountability for choices made.”

(4) Dallin H. Oaks –October 1993 – “The Great Plan of Happiness”

“Some Christians condemn Eve for her act, concluding that she and her daughters are somehow flawed by it. Not the Latter-day Saints! Informed by revelation, we celebrate Eve’s act and honor her wisdom and courage in the great episode called the Fall (see Bruce R. McConkie, “Eve and the Fall,” Woman, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1979, pp. 67–68). Joseph Smith taught that it was not a “sin,” because God had decreed it (see The Words of Joseph Smith, ed. Andrew F. Ehat and Lyndon W. Cook, Provo, Utah: Religious Studies Center, Brigham Young University, 1980, p. 63). Brigham Young declared, “We should never blame Mother Eve, not the least” (in Journal of Discourses, 13:145). Elder Joseph Fielding Smith said: “I never speak of the part Eve took in this fall as a sin, nor do I accuse Adam of a sin. … This was a transgression of the law, but not a sin … for it was something that Adam and Eve had to do!”

(5) Boyd K. Packer – October 1988 – “Funerals—A Time for Reverence”

“Fall may also describe a change in condition. For instance, one can fall in reputation or from prominence. The word fall well describes what transpired when Adam and Eve were driven from the garden. A transformation took place in their bodies. The bodies of flesh and bone became temporal bodies. Temporal means temporary. The scriptures say, “the life of all flesh is the blood thereof.”

(6) Boyd K. Packer – October 1988 – “Funerals—A Time for Reverence”

“After the transformation of the Fall, bodies of flesh and bone and blood (unlike our spirit bodies) could not endure. Somehow the ingredient of blood carried with it a limit to life. It was as though a clock were set and a time given. Thereafter, all living things moved inexorably toward mortal death.”

(7) Dallin H. Oaks –October 1993 – “The Great Plan of Happiness”

“Modern revelation shows that our first parents understood the necessity of the Fall. Adam declared, “Blessed be the name of God, for because of my transgression my eyes are opened, and in this life I shall have joy, and again in the flesh I shall see God.”

(8) Russell M. Nelson – October 1987 – “Lessons from Eve”

“You will recall that after the earth had been created, divided, beautified, and inhabited with plant and animal life, the crowning achievement of the Creation was to be man—the human being. “So the Gods went down to organize man in their own image, … male and female to form they them.”

(9) James E. Faust – October 1999 – “What It Means to Be a Daughter of God”

We all owe a great debt of gratitude to Eve. In the Garden of Eden, she and Adam were instructed not to eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. However, they were also reminded, “Thou mayest choose for thyself.” 9 The choice was really between a continuation of their comfortable existence in Eden, where they would never progress, or a momentous exit into mortality with its opposites: pain, trials, and physical death in contrast to joy, growth, and the potential for eternal life.”

(10) Boyd K. Packer – October 2012 – “The Atonement”

“It was understood from the beginning that in mortality we would fall short of being perfect. It was not expected that we would live without transgressing one law or another. “For the natural man is an enemy to God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will be, forever and ever, unless he yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord.”
Position Statement

The Fall of Adam is key to this earthly life.  There are so many things to be learned from this seemingly simple, yet life-altering story.  I have not yet gone to receive my endowments, however I do know that The Fall plays a large part in the knowledge received in the temple, therefore it is vital that we all do what we can to increase our knowledge in this subject.  The Fall is not just another story in a book.  It is an event that made our existence possible.  Adam and Eve made a decision to Fall not for the sake of sinning, but to fall for their family.  They fell for us.

Charity


(1) Thomas S. Monson – October 2010 – “Charity Never Faileth”

“I consider charity—or “the pure love of Christ”—to be the opposite of criticism and judging. In speaking of charity, I do not at this moment have in mind the relief of the suffering through the giving of our substance. That, of course, is necessary and proper. Tonight, however, I have in mind the charity that manifests itself when we are tolerant of others and lenient toward their actions, the kind of charity that forgives, the kind of charity that is patient.”

(2) Thomas S. Monson – October 2010 – “Charity Never Faileth”

“True charity is love in action. The need for charity is everywhere.”

(3) Thomas S. Monson – April 2014 – “Love—The Essence of the Gospel”

“We cannot truly love God if we do not love our fellow travelers on this mortal journey. Likewise, we cannot fully love our fellowmen if we do not love God, the Father of us all. The Apostle John tells us, “This commandment have we from him, That he who loveth God love his brother also.”3 We are all spirit children of our Heavenly Father and, as such, are brothers and sisters. As we keep this truth in mind, loving all of God’s children will become easier.”

(4) Dieter F. Uchtdorf – October 2009 – “The Love of God”

“Because love is the great commandment, it ought to be at the center of all and everything we do in our own family, in our Church callings, and in our livelihood. Love is the healing balm that repairs rifts in personal and family relationships. It is the bond that unites families, communities, and nations. Love is the power that initiates friendship, tolerance, civility, and respect. It is the source that overcomes divisiveness and hate. Love is the fire that warms our lives with unparalleled joy and divine hope. Love should be our walk and our talk.”

(5) Dieter F. Uchtdorf – October 2009 – “The Love of God”

“Heavenly Father’s love for His children is the core message of the plan of happiness, which plan is made active through the Atonement of Jesus Christ—the greatest expression of love the world has ever known.”

(6) Dieter F. Uchtdorf – October 2008 – “The Infinite Power of Hope”

“Hope is critical to both faith and charity. When disobedience, disappointment, and procrastination erode faith, hope is there to uphold our faith. When frustration and impatience challenge charity, hope braces our resolve and urges us to care for our fellowmen even without expectation of reward. The brighter our hope, the greater our faith. The stronger our hope, the purer our charity.”

(7) Dieter F. Uchtdorf – October 2008 – “The Infinite Power of Hope”

“The things we hope for lead us to faith, while the things we hope in lead us to charity. The three qualities—faith, hope, and charity —working together, grounded on the truth and light of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ, lead us to abound in good works.”

(8) Silvia H. Allred – October 2011 – “Charity Never Faileth”

“The Savior is the perfect example of how to extend charity. During His mortal ministry He showed compassion for the hungry, for the sinner, for the afflicted, and for the sick. He ministered to the poor and to the rich; to women, children, and men; to family, friends, and strangers. He forgave His accusers, and He suffered and died for all mankind.”

(9) Elaine L. Jack – October 1996 – “Strengthened in Charity”

“So it is with kindness. Nothing will bring the Spirit of the Lord into your meetings, your homes, and your personal associations more quickly than showing kindness. “Charity … is kind” (1 Cor. 13:4). Kindness should be right at the top of everyone’s list of things to do. Write it down every day: “Be kind.” Kindness comes in many different packages. Be thoughtful to your neighbors. Be patient in a crowd. Be considerate of your children and your husband. Be honest with your sisters. Trust them and they will trust you. Go out and bring them into this grand circle of sisters we call Relief Society. As we increase our kindness, we add charity to our storehouse and we are strengthened.”

(10) C. Max Caldwell – October 1992 – “Love of Christ”

“How deeply do we love him? Does our love depend on favorable environments? Is it diminished or strengthened by our experiences? Is our love for him evident by our behavior and our attitude? Charity, or love for Christ, sustains us in every need and influences us in every decision.”

Position Statement

Love.  It may sound silly, but I think that the Beatles were right when then said that “All you need is love.”  The first and great commandment is tied to love and so is the second.  If we just learn to love and truly love, we would be able to do all we set out for on this earth.  We would be able to do all God has asked of us, because we would be doing it for Him.  Our actions would be driven by our main desire to serve God and show our love to Him.  Love is all we are really asked to do in the long run.  Everything else will seem simple once we have mastered that.